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THE MOST POWERFUL OF ALL JOB HUNTING TOOLS

You're at a social engagement, and someone learns you're in a job search. They ask, "What are you looking for?" Do you know how to reply in a way that both informs your contact of your objectives and motivates him or her to help you? Could you say it in under two minutes?

To take full advantage of networking conversations, you have to be able to express who you are and where you're going - and do it positively and quickly. If you can't, you're just one more face in the looking-for-work crowd.

If you have painful memories of getting the wrong reaction from network contacts -- condescending or bored looks, uncomfortable silences, or even suggestions that you see a career consultant (perish the thought!) -- then mastering this absolutely fundamental career tool will give you a needed shot of confidence.

The "Skill-Based Intro," (or "SBI") is your hip-pocket self-presentation. You always have it at the ready. A crisp SBI will engender real interest on the part of your conversation partners, instead of deer-in-the-headlights, or "whoops, I gotta run!" reactions. Your SBI will have three parts: 1) what you're good at; (2) an illustration; and, (3) what you're looking for.

Part 1) What you're good at... Here you state, concisely, what you do well and what distinguishes you from your competition. This requires some advance self-analysis. Your number of years of experience and titles attained don't cut it. An attorney expressed it this way: "I sift through a mountain of evidence to find the few gold nuggets that can tip the balance in a case." One manager said, "I create rapport with customers to discover their needs. Then I train and supervise staff and coordinate with others in the organization so that we provide the consistent, reliable service that keeps customers loyal."

Part 2) An illustration... is a story. People love and remember stories. And they'll remember you if you tell a compelling story that draws them in and enables them to "see" you in action... Example: "When I started in the mortgage department, everyone was busy, and had no time to train me. No matter. I quickly learned the job on my own, and discovered that many of the procedures were very inefficient. I took the initiative to redesign forms and the paperwork flow, and in a short time, I was promoted to department head. Not only did I achieve this position at a very young age, but by continuing my flair for efficiency, I was able to handle work by myself that used to take four people to do."

Part 3) What you're looking for... Lastly, you need to tell contacts what you want to do next. You don't need to have absolute clarity here, but you do need to have enough direction that listeners can sift through their "mental Rolodex" and select the right people for you to talk to. You can certainly say that you're weighing this option and that one, or that you're looking for the best place to apply your skill set (the one you so clearly articulated a moment ago) within a certain industry. But, please, don't ever say, "Well, I'm really open." People won't know how to help you.

Once you're comfortable with your SBI, you can pull it out at a moment's notice to enlist a new partner in your search campaign -- one who...

  •  knows clearly what your career goals are;
  •  understands your pattern of success;
  •  believes you are capable and qualified for your objectives;
  • senses your enthusiasm and participates with you on your campaign emotionally, not just intellectually; and,
  •  is motivated to help you contact others, or even advocate for you in joining his or her own organization.
A thoughtfully created and presented Skill-Based Intro can help transform networking from drudgery to an exciting and productive exploration. Why not craft your SBI today?



Copyright © 2004, Peter J. Miller, d/b/a Cobblestone Consulting. All rights reserved.
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